I meant she's literally copy/pasting other peoples old posts, some of which are yours (the one where you stated perhaps it would have been better for May to have one contest region long journey rather than split in two like for BF for pacing reasons), and splicing them together (taking some things you said, and another user there just noticed she copied her post about May's Squirtle and took it from an old post from 2022, etc). That person also admitted to never actually watching AG on other sites, so they're basically trolling.She even is double posting and using that entire thread for constant anti-May posts claiming May got no screentime or faded into the background for 50 episodes, which is wrong. That's why I asked if you were still a mod because if you look through her older posts it's all the same copy/paste posts about May almost over and over dating back to 2020. She should really be banned but it flies under the radar since bulbagarden has too slow activity nowadays, and the mods there probably just don't notice it. Also her saying May, "has no personality and is lifeless" is basically borderline character bashing, even if it can pass off as an opinion. Something needs to be done, that's why I brought it to your attention.
Ah, I did say that May would have been better if AG had just one Contest journey instead of two. Not all of that was due to May's writing. The Battle Frontier arc in general felt way too rushed with cramming in a lot of major battles for both Ash and May within the span of a little over a year. Kind of weird to use that for anti-May comments when I wasn't being negative on May to begin with. I still say that you're missing my point entirely by focusing so much on what someone else is doing and not realizing that you're just as obsessed, if not more so, with repeating the same talking points on Misty and her fanbase.
I found Cilan refreshing back then, he also tagged team with Ash in random episodes a lot more than Brock did, like battling the subway masters or those random tag battle eps they had in fillers. Yes he wasn't developed too much, but the writers always have issues giving the male companions development (even Clemont only fared slightly better, let alone Kiawe and Goh), so I'm willing to give it a pass. It's much harder to give a male companion development compared to Ash and the female lead.
Clian was refreshing at the start of BW, but I think he was starting to become less appealing even as the series progressed for me. Brock wasn't into traditional battles, so Cilan battling more often with Ash isn't a stretch with that in mind. While he's still likable, I'd probably put Cilan pretty low on my list of secondary male characters.
I'd also give Clemont way more credit than that. Clemont had actual character development, which is more than I can say for Cilan. I don't know if I'd go as far as to say that traveling with Ash didn't impact his character like I would with Iris, but his development was minimal at best since he was already starting at such a high rank for his goal. Clemont is a different more confident character by the end of XY. His story admittedly finished by his Gym battle with Ash and he didn't have much to do between then and the Team Flare arc, but he definitely didn't fare only slightly better than Clian. He was a vast improvement in my opinion.
Kiawe didn't have as much character development compared to Clemont, but considering that SM had a much bigger cast to juggle, I don't think that's a bad thing. He was still likable, had some pretty solid focused episodes and mixed well with Ash and the whole SM group dynamics. I'd also say he was much better than Cilan, if only for his personality and being one of the more interesting SM classmates for me. Goh wasn't really a secondary male protagonist, at least not in the same sense as Brock was. They were definitely billing him as more of a secondary protagonist, akin to Dawn in DP. While Dawn is a better example of a co-protagonist, I still liked Goh. He was likable, had a good dynamic with Ash and I did like his character development. I don't think he was handled perfectly. Project Mew should have been introduced much earlier for example, but I also think that fans were way too harsh on him right from the start.
I don't think it's necessarily harder for the writers to give character development to the secondary male leads compared to Ash and the female lead, mainly because they have done it with multiple characters. As much as I didn't care for Sopholces at the start of SM, he did get better focused episodes by the end of the series. Not to mention not all of the female leads were handled well or had believable development either.